Noelle's prayer

I know I've pretty much just been talking about the funny things the other people in my family do (or embarrassing things that happen to you if your Josh) but I have another one. 

Today Noelle, Madeline, and I were in the car and we were taking lunch to Josh. Noelle and I had been talking and then it was quiet for a minute until I hear Noelle's slightly lowered voice. She starts out, in the cutest little voice mind you, "Jesus, could you please give me a little brother? And could you have Zoe come over to my house again cause she had to leave? And can you make all the birds fly away?" 

I think I held my breath the whole time she was talking so I wouldn't miss anything she said! It nearly brought me to tears the way she was talking to Jesus...like she knew he was right there listening to her and caring about all the things she was thinking about. Even though I heard what she said I had to ask her about it. When I asked what she was talking to Jesus about she said the first two things and when she said the third about wanting the birds to fly away I asked her why. She said that the birds need to fly away so that the cars don't hit them. I don't think I would have ever thought to pray about that but it was obviously on her mind. 

Sigh...those are the moments you live for as a parent I think. The sound of my little daughter talking to Jesus on her own without any prompting is just priceless. These are the moments I want so badly to remember so that when she is 13 and maybe annoyed with her little brother, I can tell her "I remember when we were in the car when you were three and you asked Jesus for a little brother".  Sigh...will Noelle really be 13 someday? That made me kind of sad and excited all at the same time. Sad to think of my little girl not being so little but excited to see her grow up to be a young woman and the relationship we have continuing to deepen.  Those last few sentences got a few tears out of me. I think I've been working too hard : )

Noelle's future husband

This is going to be incredibly quick but I know that I have been slacking on writing (not that all of you are on the edge of your seat waiting for me to post) and I wanted to share a cute thing Noelle said.

Tonight we were at church and Kay Hampson was there who is the mother of my sister-in-law Joyce. Anyway, her and Noelle were talking about how Patrick and Joyce are married and Noelle very seriously said "I haven't decided yet which boy I'm going to marry". I'm pretty relieved to hear that my 3-year old has not already chosen her life-long marriage partner! I'm also relieved that she has moved on from wanting to marry Selah and has finally understood that she needs to marry a boy. It's pretty funny though because I think she has the understanding that she gets to simply pick someone out. I asked her if she had anyone in mind but she replied again that she hadn't decided yet. I love the way that little girl thinks  : )

Noelle and Daddy

Lately it's been so nice to see Noelle going out of her way to be with her dad and be interested/obsessed with where he is. She started this newest, and hopefully permanent phase, a few weeks ago when she started waking up every morning when he would leave for work. I would hear the door close and then without fail Noelle would start to cry. Her bed is situated in a way where she can look out the window so the door must have woken her up each time and she would look out and then start crying for her dad. Sometimes she would cry out to me "Where's daddy going" even though she already knows. Other times she would cry for Josh saying "Don't leave daddy, I'm going to miss you". He can't hear this of course so she would then come into my bed and I would explain again how dad is going to come home later after he teaches the kids at school. It's so wonderful, even though sad at times, to see her so wrapped up in her dad. She runs to him most times when he comes home from work now, usually shouting "Daddy, daddy!". And man does Josh love it! He is eating it up at the moment since as most of you know, Noelle and Josh have had a bumpy couple of years with Noelle going in and out of being openly affectionate with him.  

Thankfully we seem to have come to a point where she seems to have leveled off at being affectionate with her dad, wanting to be with him, and going out of her way to include him in her world. She doesn't cry for him anymore when he leaves in the morning, which is a good thing I think because that was heartbreaking. She has continued to be really excited though when he comes home and talks about him throughout the day, asking when he is coming home. Noelle loves all of us being together, this includes big family hugs, all of us laying on our bed watching a show with her, and she loves for all of us to play games together.  She's at a fun age, still difficult at times, but fun. I'll have to write some of the difficult stories soon because they have not been in short supply lately either : )

Cute pics

Here's mix of some cute pics taken lately. The ones of Noelle in the laundry basket Noelle was in her "boat" and having a lot of fun. The ones of Madeline dressed in Noelle's stuff were inspired by Laura just tonight : )  The one of Noelle in the snow happened just the other night when it started snowing for the first time this year. Unfortunately it snowed for just about five minutes and then stopped. Noelle was pretty put off by it stopping and moaned that it would "never snow again". She has been saying things are never going to happen quite a lot lately and I'm not sure where she got it. If I tell you she can't do something like watch TV, she'll mumble under her breath "I'm never going to get to watch TV". And she says it in a way that seems older than her three years, but I guess I should be used to that by now : )

Fall pictures

 

Some of my favorite pictures growing up are the ones of us kids in the leaves. I finally got some taken of Noelle the other day after her dance class. I had the realization when I was looking through these pictures that she is in the same leaves that I was in for our pictures! Of course they're different leaves, but the same tree. It made it even sweeter to me. I am going to look for some pictures of myself in these leaves so I can compare Noelle and I. If I can remember to do this when I go to my parents house then I'll post pictures of both of us in the leaves. I didn't want to wait until I did that because knowing myself, I may never get around to doing it. 

And not to leave Maddie out, here's a picture of her from that same day. I'll have to wait until next year to get a good picture of her in the leaves. 

Hilariously embarrassing

One of the most embarrassing moments of Josh's life happened just two days ago so I thought I'd share it. I have his permission of course but I thought it fitting to write this after his nice little comment about me slacking on my blog : )

I need to paint you all a little picture of the stage on which this most embarrassing moment happened.  My mom's birthday was on Sunday so we were over at my parents house for dinner. Some of us were in the kitchen and some were in the dining room.  Josh was helping to clear the table after dinner and was in the dining room with my mom, my grandmom and the Korean exchange student staying at my parents house, who is a woman. Josh describes the following events like this. He had some plates in his hands when all of a sudden he feels a cool breeze on his legs. He thinks to himself, "no way", but looks down as see that actually yes there is somehow a way that his pants are now around his ANKLES! His pants completely fell down in front of my mom, grandmom, and the Korean exchange student! I unfortunately did not get to witness the event but only saw Josh walk into the kitchen as if in a dream with a strange sort of smile on his face. He calmly said "my pants just fell down" with a big smile on his face. I can't believe that he means what I think he means so I confirm that he means they really fell all the way down. He said that he thinks he could have just played it off because no one was looking but that he was in such shock over it that he started talking out loud about it. He also said that it looked like none of them were actually looking but I think they made sure to make it look like they didn't see to avoid an awkward situation being even more awkward! Can you imagine? I seriously can't. I laughed so hard and I still wish so badly that I would have looked in the dining room and seen Josh standing in the dining room, plates in hand, with his pants around his ankles. Man, that is something he and I, or those present in the dining room for that matter, will never forget!

my funny girl

Noelle has been saying some pretty hilarious things lately (not that this is out of character) so I thought I'd share a few.

The other day Zoe ran off when I was letting her out to go to the bathroom and was gone for awhile. When she came back, as I was letting her in, I said something like "Zoe you were a bad dog". Instantly, Noelle started crying and said "Mom you can't say that, that might hurt her feelings. Zoe's not a bad dog, she's a good dog". I wanted to laugh and cry all at the same time but mostly I was trying not to laugh because her reaction was so cute. I wish I could write in her inflection because how she was crying and saying it was just so priceless!

Tonight we were watching some of the The Bee Movie and Noelle said to me. "Mom, she (even though it is a boy bee) shut the door in her mom's face...she didn't get in trouble...Bees don't get in trouble". How funny is that? She was aware that something the bee did was wrong but didn't get in trouble so she made up a rule to go along with what she saw!  This kind of proclaiming general rules as if they are part of the ten commandments is very common these days.  

There was something else that was really funny but I can't remember it now : (  If I remember I'll just write about it later.  I keep saying I need to carry around a pad of paper and pen so I can write down what she says but I keep not doing it. I'll add that to the list of the things I should be doing that I'm not : )

Harvest Party

So here's some pictures of the girls from the harvest party. Maddie was the cutest little pea pod and she didn't seem to mind wearing her costume. Thankfully, Noelle was actually excited this year to wear her costume. I included a picture at the bottom from last year when she was a little grumpy about wearing her chicken costume : )

A little more honesty

I didn't know when I started writing tonight if it would be just for myself or if I would post it. I figured though that humility is a good thing and if it helps anyone else feel like they're not alone in failing, well then that's a good thing too...

I feel like I’m losing. I’m losing my battle to pray everyday. Plain and simple. I have failed again to follow God’s leading. He asked me a while ago to pray from 10 to 10:30 each night (I need things to be set for them to happen) and I have pushed it aside except for a couple of occasions. I have excused myself somehow. I have rationalized why it’s okay that I haven’t done this. God is a God of seasons…I know this. I also know that this is supposed to be a season of me seeking God in a new way. Of not making excuses for why I don’t pray more. For not being a slave to my comfort and my busy schedule anymore.

It’s so hard because on one hand I can be so hard on myself, which can drive me away from Jesus even more. So then I remember that he loves me and I don’t have to be perfect and I feel better. The problem is when I stop at feeling better and don’t actually do what I want to do. I can go from one extreme to the other and then never get anything accomplished.

I’m supposed to be praying…I need to pray. To really pray. Not just throwing up prayers throughout the day (even though that’s good to do) or taking five minutes to read my Bible and reflect for a moment. God is pulling on me. He’s challenging me during this time. But He’s not challenging me to run a marathon or find the cure for cancer. No, He’s simply asking me to pray. To pray and then watch what he can do through my prayers. He wants to show himself to me, that’s all. Well maybe that’s not everything but that’s a part of it.

This reminds me of a lesson God taught me when I was on my DTS with Youth With a Mission. It was the last week and we had just gotten back from our outreach (I had gone to Papua New Guinea, not that this matters). I was in Texas and it was on a ranch and there was a loop around the property where you could walk. There was a lot of land. I’m terrible with numbers so I don’t know exactly how many acres but it was huge. One night I was in the dorm hanging out with friends but I felt like going outside. I had this crazy thought that I should take a walk around the loop and talk to God because he had some things he wanted to show me. It was completely dark out, again it was nighttime. I was thinking, there’s no way, that would be SO scary. I didn’t even think I could do it. During this conversation in my head, Jesus puts his two cents in. I feel him speaking through my thoughts.  He says something like, “you don’t have to go, I won’t be angry or even disappointed, it’s up to you. You can stay and you won’t have lost anything but you also won’t know what you would have learned or experienced if you did go.” It was great too because I really felt like there wasn’t any pressure. He wouldn’t be holding anything against me if I didn’t do it. I was free to decide whether to risk being extremely uncomfortable in the dark and have an amazing time with God or just go back inside as if nothing had happened. Crazy as it was, for me at least, I decided to take the risk and go for the walk. As I walked, I started singing. Now as most of you should know, I don’t sing well. It is not a normal occurrence for me to sing by myself with the chance of someone hearing me.  However, I sang new songs that came to me as I started to connect with God’s plan for me during that walk. When I came to an especially creepy part of the walk, the part where there are trees on either side of the loop, my resolve to go forward had to get stronger. It was cool though because as I was walking I saw this life lesson unfolding before me.

There are going to be a lot of things that God will ask me to do and the choice will ultimately always be mine. He won’t love me any less if I don’t do them, and I will still spend eternity with Him, and so on. However, I will never know the amazing things that could have come from my action if I don’t take the risk and say yes. I never felt so close to Jesus as I did that night walking around the loop in the dark. He was so present with me I really knew he was walking with me. I can't describe well enough the impact that walk with Jesus had on me.

I want to say yes again. I want to find out what’s out there in the dark if I would just be brave enough to take Jesus’ hand and walk. I know it'll be worth it.  

Noelle the giraffe

This post is inspired by a cute thing that Noelle did at nap time today. Noelle had been up in her room for quite some time supposedly going to sleep. However, it was evident by the frequent sounds of footsteps and giggles or singing, that there was not much sleep going on. I had resigned to the fact that she would not be falling asleep today but then it was quiet for a little while. Laura stopped by around that time and had to get something of hers she had left upstairs. She comes downstairs with a smile on her face and so I ask her if Noelle is asleep. She says yes and that she is in her giraffe costume asleep in her bed. So at some point Noelle had put on her giraffe costume, climbed back in bed and fell asleep. I couldn't resist taking pictures of course even at the risk of waking her up.  

Later when she woke up she was being shy...Jenna was over...so she didn't want to come downstairs. She was being grumpy as well as shy so she curled up in a ball and this is the shot we got from downstairs.

I also took some cute pics of Josh and the girls so I thought I'd post those as well. I know they are my kids but don't you want to just squeeze them?!!!

Delaware Kids' Directory

*Charis Latshaw featured on the Nov. cover*

For those of you who don't know much about my business I thought I would explain a little more. Hopefully it won't be too boring : )  So, Kids' Directories (www.kidsdirectories.com) are in over 100 cities across the nation and how you start yours is you buy a license for your area. Delaware was not taken yet, so we got to buy the license for Delaware. Usually, you get a city or a city and the surrounding area. Nope, not us, we get the whole state : )  I guess they didn't think anyone else would take just lower Delaware.  

A Kids' Directory is a free, digest sized, resource guide for parents. It's all advertising for anything kid (or mom) related. I have photographers, ice rinks, theatres, dance companies, work-at-home businesses, kids' entertainment (bowling, inflatables, etc.), non-profits, martial arts, and many more.  It's a monthly, full color, publication that I get to hand deliver myself (with some help of course). We will be distributing them to pediatricians/pediatric dentists offices, libraries, Boys & Girls Clubs, YMCA's, hospitals, maternity/kids retail stores, OB/GYN offices, women's doctors' offices, all our advertisers businesses, salons...the list goes on and on since we have 10,000 to deliver each month.

My job includes many things since it's pretty much a one-man show (or one-woman in my case). I am responsible for contacting potential advertisers and meeting with them (if I can get a hold of them and then convince them to let me stop by for a few minutes). I really love meeting with people in person so much more than having to talk to people on the phone. Once I can get a meeting I am good to go, for the most part. I really hate making the cold calls and trying to get the initial meeting. Businesses get bombarded by people wanting them to advertise so many business owners are a little guarded about using up their precious time on something they're assuming won't work for them. What's great about the Kids' Directory is that it is so targeted and there is nothing like it in the area. Of course we have some competition but they are newsprint and are focused on articles related to kids/families with some advertising in them.

Another part of my job includes working with my graphic artist to get the ads created or redesigned and then get the directory laid out. I don't do any of the designing, I leave that to the professional, but I do put in my two cents here and there. I am the go between for the graphic artist and the advertiser. I have to get approval from the advertiser once their ad is completed.

There's more involved of course with running your own business but that's the idea anyway. We will have our website up by next week hopefully so you could check it out then. It's www.delawarekidsdirectory.com

I hope that wasn't too boring for everyone (all three of you reading this). Jamie I was a little long getting this up but hopefully that gives you a better idea of what I'm doing : )  I'll write more of the personal side of it, as far as the ups and downs, at another time. Time for bed before Maddie gets up... 

Honesty

I love honesty. I love honesty within myself, I love honesty between myself and God, I love honesty with those I love.  I’m having a moment of wanting to be really honest about the way I fail. I’ve learned to love being okay with falling short. The only way to feel okay with this of course is to know that there’s Someone who doesn’t fall short and doesn’t respond according to what I deserve. 

I still hate it when I don’t take the time I need to with God or don’t give him my attention throughout the day in the way that I know blesses him as well as me. It’s not that I love my shortcomings but rather I love being in the place where I can look honestly at myself and still feel completely loved and valuable. This hasn’t always been the case, and remembering how I used to feel about falling short reminds me of how far God has brought me. This is especially encouraging when I feel like I’m still in the same place of wishing I was doing more of what I want to with God. 

So more about how I fail…I fail to be patient with Noelle sometimes when she wants to ask the same question twenty times in a row…I fail to trust Jesus that he is truly taking care of us…I fail to trust Josh’s heart towards me sometimes and jump to conclusions.  I fail to have dialogue with my God in the way that I know I can…I fail to pray for those that I love. I fail to cast all my cares on Jesus…I fail to ask for what I need. It’s amazing to start listing them all because I could keep going and going. And the weird part is that it’s truly not depressing, it really is so liberating. It’s so crazy that I can fail in so many ways and on a daily basis and yet every day I have a million chances to make a different choice. Even if I didn’t have very much dialogue with God today…tomorrow I could talk to him all day long. Today, even though I may have carried anxiety and stress that I don’t have to…tomorrow I could throw it all at the feet of Jesus and he won’t think a thing about how I didn’t do it today. Jesus is the most of aware of my human nature, most aware of how very often I fall short. And yet he is the most able to respond in love, to respond in forgiveness and with grace. 

It’s weird that the best way to feel good about yourself isn’t to make up excuses or rationalize why what you do isn’t that bad. That someone else is worse than you and that you’ve tried your best.  One way I picture the way I want to be is that I’m in a room with Jesus and all my failings and shortcomings are in the room too. I’m not squirming or ashamed…my eyes aren’t downcast and hoping Jesus doesn’t see through me. No, I’m sitting there peacefully, fully aware that no matter how full that room is with my failings, Jesus’ love and joy over my life doesn’t change. I’m looking Him in the eyes and there’s an exchange of love, of understanding…I’m the sinner and He’s the Savior. There’s nothing to hide, nothing to try and justify. I fail and He doesn’t. Isn’t that great?

Noelle and Jesus

Noelle and I have been talking a lot more about Jesus and God lately and it has brought about some priceless questions and answers. The main focus lately is on explaining how Jesus is always with her even though she can't see him. On the way to her dance class last week we were talking about God, I can't remember why exactly, but I was trying to explain to her how Jesus is in heaven but he's also here with us. A tricky concept for those of us over 3 and even trickier for her. When talking about him being in heaven she very assertively said..."well I think he should come back".  I got to inform her that he thinks he should come back too, and in fact that is exactly what he will do someday!  She was glad to hear that what she thought was correct. After talking some more about Jesus being in us...she proceeded to ask "is Jesus in my belly?"

Tonight we were at church for a women's retreat and at the end Noelle was in the meeting for a little while when the speaker was praying for someone and they used the word 'broken'. Well, Noelle doesn't miss a thing and this started a continual slew of questions like "is that lady broken?", "are they gonna fix her?". After we talked some more about what it meant to be broken and to pray to Jesus for him to fix us I asked her if she is ever broken and needs Jesus to fix her. She said "yeah somedays...well, no people can't be broken, just glass (pronounced "grass" by her". If you step on it you might break it". Ahhh...the mind of a three-year-old.

Another funny God story also occurred tonight.  She has heard the word mercy before on her VeggieTales show 'Jonah' and tonight during worship one of the songs had the word mercy in it. Noelle asked me "who's mercy mom". I explain what mercy is...it's when someone is mean to you but you are nice to them instead of being mean back to them...she thinks about it and asks a good question. "Does God show us mercy?" My heart leaps and of course I say yes, yes he does...I'm thinking "wow she really gets it...I don't know how she gets it but she does". A little time passes and she asks another question "is it a puppy?". I'm thinking "she can't still be talking about mercy" but I ask anyway "is who a puppy?" "Mercy" Noelle answers back with a little smirk on her face. Well, I thought she had the concept anyway!

I love getting to talk to Noelle about God and have her ask good questions. It challenges me to find really simple ways of explaining very complicated realities.  I've always prayed for her from the time I was pregnant with her and have talked to her about God but things are changing for her and her ability to engage in a conversation about it. She is also starting to pray such sweet prayers. I think she has a very compassionate heart and likes to pray for people. It's so wonderful as her mom who has invested time praying for her and speaking truth to her, to start seeing this little daughter of God start to respond to Him in an outward way that I can see. I can't wait for the next questions or the next prayers. It really does remind me of how close Jesus is to us because when she prays there is no doubt in my mind that Jesus is listening.

part 2- oops

I forgot the funniest picture. Maddie looks a little crazy : )

good times with the girls

Here are the pictures as promised last night. Maddie and I had fun doing our own little photo shoot. Now, I am not the expert picture taker of myself (I know some of you have mastered the art...you know who you are...lol) but I thought it would be fun to have some pictures of the two of us since I'm always the one taking pictures. The pictures of Noelle with the shirt on her head was her idea because she saw Madeline's pictures with her shirt on her head and thought she needed some pictures like that as well : )  

I have to start carrying around a notepad so that I can write down the funny things that Noelle says through out the day because now when I sit down to think of them, they are evading my memory.  

Young Marrieds

Yeah! We had our first Young Married's small group tonight and it went really well! I'm so excited that we are really doing it. We have a great mix of couples...ones who have been coming to the church for a long time, ones who have been coming for only two weeks, and a lot in between. The range for length of marriages is also really varied, from 2 months to 10 years. It seems though that the majority have been married between 3-6 years. We had about 12 couples come tonight which was bigger than I anticipated but I was pleasantly surprised. It was fun meeting new couples and I'm so glad that new couples have a place now to get connected quickly with other couples. For the first 6 weeks we are going through Gary Smalley's series "I Promise" and it seems like it's going to be really good. We did the first DVD tonight and everyone seemed to really like it. 

After watching the 20 minute DVD we break up into two small groups to discuss the lesson and I love that our small group is talkative. Right off the bat people gave really good answers and seemed fine with sharing. I know we have the best group already- jk- I'm just competitive so it just comes natural to think that way : )     

I know I'm just giving commentary really and someday in the near future I will write a more thoughtful, soul-searching post but I have felt like I don't have it in me right now because I'm not in that mode. When I get into my work mode of having to get things done I get very focused on being concise and I think that's coming out in my posts since I always post late at night after I've been working. 

After tomorrow though I won't be up late working...at least for a little while  : ) 

I think I'll post some cute pics of the girls tomorrow because I can't do it tonight. One more thing...Maddie laughed tonight with me and it almost made my heart burst! She has laughed with Josh but only a really small one with me up until tonight. Man...it is the most wonderful thing in the world to hear your child laugh some of her first laughs!  It's the sweetest sound : )  

Our first deadline

Wednesday is the final deadline for our first Delaware Kids' Directory publication! Am I worried whether it's going to get done in time? Yeah a little. Our graphic artist is great but he is really laid back and I know he has a ton of work to do in the next few days. I only have two things to get to him tomorrow and then it's all up to him.  I like working with him because he is so laid back but then when it comes to deadlines that makes me a little nervous. I am confident though that he is going to do what he has to do but I hate to think that he's going to be swamped with work for the next few days. Josh keeps reminding me that he has had a lot of time to get most of the work done so if he has waited that is his own fault. I agree, it's just easy for me to feel like I should have done something differently.

I am so excited for Wednesday when I don't have to think anymore about selling ads or getting ads ready or any of that for at least a couple of weeks. And I'm even more excited to see our first directory when it is printed. We'll have them in about two weeks. 

This whole adventure of starting this business has been quite stressful and difficult at times but I am seeing the light at the end of the tunnel and seeing that it really is going to be worth it. What has been great is that I've seen that I can do it. What I was most worried about was whether or not I could actually sell ads. There was a big possibility that no one was going to want to spend their hard earned money on advertising in our unknown kids directory. Thankfully, by the grace of God, about twenty people are advertising in our directory which I've heard is really good for your first one. I'm half shocked and completely grateful that I didn't fall on my face. It's so cool to have worked really hard for this and to be so close to seeing the first fruits of my labor!

Editor-in-chief

This is my title whenever Josh is in school. For those of you who don't know, Josh started his masters in education this year. This means that I started school as well : )  If Josh is in school, than so am I.  I guess that's not really true but when he has a lot of papers to write it feels like it. I have to edit almost anything he writes, and while his writing has improved since the time I first starting editing his papers back when we were newlyweds, it still requires quite a bit of time. I do not say this to put Josh down (Josh you know I would never do that) I just happen to be quite busy myself these days so this just adds to the list of things that I have to do in a day. His masters though will not only benefit him but will benefit me as well, monetarily that is, so maybe I shouldn't complain about it. Josh would agree I think : )

Again it is late...this time due to editing rather than my own work...but it is late non the less so this will be another short post. 

Madeline

I am exhausted and I am impressing myself that I'm even posting anything but when I was looking through some pictures I saw these of Maddie and had to share them. Who can look this cute with a shirt on their head? The profile one is hilarious because her face looks so chubby! 

I have a choice to make now because it is late and I should go to sleep but I could keep doing work for the Kids' Directory since my graphic artist needs everything I can give him by tomorrow. To work or to sleep...that is the question. I think sleep may win out tonight because Maddie will be waking up too soon for my liking.

Noelle's famous quote

I'm not sure how this whole blogging thing will turn out but I thought I'd give it a try.  I'm not promising to be as faithful as Jessica but I think I can do better than Jonathan.  No hard feelings Jonathan...it was just an easy comparison : )I guess I should explain the name of my blog for those of you who don't already know. My oldest daughter, Noelle, repeatedly uses this phrase as an answer to any number of questions. For example, if you asked her if she likes bananas she might reply with a shrug of her shoulders and a nonchalant answer of "some days, some not".  Or if asked if she is a good girl (in the context of obeying) she may also respond with her answer of  "some days, some not".  I hope the humor in this is not just obvious to myself and Josh who are her parents and therefore think most everything she does is funny. For Josh and I this is one of the most endearing things she says and we often find ourselves quoting her when there is no better answer to be found than a simple "some days, some not".  Feel free to use this phrase when you are asked a question and a "yes" or "no" will just not cut it. I'm sure Noelle wouldn't mind and if you're talking to Josh or I, you can be guaranteed a good laugh.